We know urinary incontinence can be a touchy subject for many, and a lot of people really hate the idea of wearing a diaper as an adult. Luckily, there are some other options such as lined underwear, absorbent pads (mostly for women), and even plastic pants that can fit over existing underwear for mild to moderate leaks. Lots of men go with the lined underwear option considering these products are washable and feel like normal under garments. Hope this helps!